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<\/figure>\n\n\n\nD\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u b\u1ea1n \u0111ang ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/h2>\n\nKh\u00f3 n\u00f3i “kh\u00f4ng”<\/h3>\n
B\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n, v\u00ec s\u1ee3 l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c bu\u1ed3n ho\u1eb7c t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn. M\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i ai, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i ho\u1eb7c lo l\u1eafng r\u1ea5t l\u00e2u sau \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n
Lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1eb7t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00ean tr\u00ean b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/h3>\n
B\u1ea1n hi sinh th\u1eddi gian, s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe, s\u1edf th\u00edch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Khi kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ai, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh v\u00f4 d\u1ee5ng ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb.<\/p>\n\n
C\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1edbi c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/h3>\n
Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n bu\u1ed3n hay t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn, b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi: “M\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec sai kh\u00f4ng?” B\u1ea1n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng “s\u1eeda” t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd thay v\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd t\u1ef1 x\u1eed l\u00fd c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n
S\u1ee3 b\u1ecb b\u1ecf r\u01a1i ho\u1eb7c t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i<\/h3>\n
N\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 m\u1ea5t \u0111i m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t \u2014 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng h\u00e0nh vi ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng \u2014 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia.<\/p>\n\n
B\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u1edd nh\u1ea1t d\u1ea7n<\/h3>\n
B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh th\u00edch g\u00ec, mu\u1ed1n g\u00ec, c\u1ea7n g\u00ec. M\u1ecdi quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u1ec1u xoay quanh ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia: h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n \u0103n g\u00ec, h\u1ecd ngh\u0129 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, h\u1ecd vui hay bu\u1ed3n.<\/p>\n\n
Nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2u?<\/h2>\n\n
Ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng gia \u0111\u00ecnh th\u1eddi th\u01a1 \u1ea5u. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghi\u1ec7n, b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c, ho\u1eb7c cha m\u1eb9 l\u1ea1nh l\u00f9ng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi hi sinh ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n. Nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 ki\u1ec3u h\u00e0nh vi n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n\n
C\u00e1ch tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi v\u00f2ng l\u1eb7p ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/h2>\n\nB\u01b0\u1edbc 1: Nh\u1eadn ra v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn<\/h3>\n
B\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u2014 v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 nh\u1ea5t \u2014 l\u00e0 nh\u1eadn ra m\u00ecnh \u0111ang \u1edf trong v\u00f2ng l\u1eb7p n\u00e0y. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 ki\u1ec3u h\u00e0nh vi h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, v\u00e0 ki\u1ec3u g\u00ec h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n\n
B\u01b0\u1edbc 2: \u0110\u1eb7t ranh gi\u1edbi c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n<\/h3>\n
Ranh gi\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 b\u1ee9c t\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u0103n c\u00e1ch, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. H\u00e3y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u1ecf: n\u00f3i “m\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n ngh\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat” khi m\u1ec7t, ho\u1eb7c t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i m\u1ed9t y\u00eau c\u1ea7u khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng.<\/p>\n\n
B\u01b0\u1edbc 3: H\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i “kh\u00f4ng” m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch d\u00e0i d\u00f2ng<\/h3>\n
“M\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00fac n\u00e0y” l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u ho\u00e0n ch\u1ec9nh. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ec7n minh hay xin l\u1ed7i v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 \u01b0u ti\u00ean b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n\n
B\u01b0\u1edbc 4: T\u00ecm l\u1ea1i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/h3>\n
H\u1ecfi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n: M\u00ecnh th\u00edch l\u00e0m g\u00ec? M\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u1ed5n? H\u00e3y d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho s\u1edf th\u00edch, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh \u2014 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, m\u00e0 v\u00ec b\u1ea1n x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u0103m s\u00f3c.<\/p>\n\n
B\u01b0\u1edbc 5: T\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3<\/h3>\n
N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y ki\u1ec3u ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c n\u00e0y \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng n\u1eb7ng \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, \u0111\u1eebng ng\u1ea1i t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn chuy\u00ean gia t\u00e2m l\u00fd. Li\u1ec7u ph\u00e1p nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c h\u00e0nh vi (CBT) v\u00e0 c\u00e1c nh\u00f3m h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng l\u1ea1i ranh gi\u1edbi l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n\n
L\u01b0u \u00fd quan tr\u1ecdng<\/h2>\n\n
Tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u00edch k\u1ef7 hay kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i \u2014 khi b\u1ea1n ch\u0103m s\u00f3c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ec3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng.<\/p>\n\n
K\u1ebft lu\u1eadn<\/h2>\n\n
Ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00f2ng l\u1eb7p c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1 v\u1ee1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u2014 b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c, ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ec3 \u01b0u ti\u00ean b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. H\u00f4m nay, h\u00e3y th\u1eed m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u1ecf: n\u00f3i “kh\u00f4ng” v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t y\u00eau c\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m, ho\u1eb7c d\u00e0nh 15 ph\u00fat ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n th\u00edch. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm l\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n
Ngu\u1ed3n tham kh\u1ea3o:<\/strong> healthline.com, psychcentral.com<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia kh\u00f4ng \u1ed5n? T\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi v\u00f2ng l\u1eb7p n\u00e0y.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":10160,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"0","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"disabled","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"set","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[37],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10166","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-suc-khoe-tinh-than"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bautruc.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10166","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bautruc.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bautruc.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bautruc.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bautruc.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10166"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.bautruc.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10166\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10222,"href":"https:\/\/www.bautruc.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10166\/revisions\/10222"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bautruc.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10160"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bautruc.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10166"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bautruc.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10166"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bautruc.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10166"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}